A letter to my {Alyssa} freshman self..

This blog post is a little different from the others I've posted on this blog, it's a collaboration with one of my greatest friends Alyssa. She's a shining light of God and I can't express how grateful I am for everything she's done for me. This week we decided to trade blogs, so I've written on her blog a letter to my freshman self and she's done the same. 

hope you enjoy xx

Dear Freshman Self,

I know how nervous you were walking through those doors on the first day. You were worried about your classes, what time you would be able to eat lunch, your group of friends(or lack there of) and how dance practice was going to be that day. You were just trying to make it through without falling on your face, or getting lost in the halls. Those seniors were intimidating and you avoided eye contact. It's okay. However there are a few things I wanted to say that might have made a difference in the way your high school career played out.

1. It's okay to be smart.

You were the only black kid in your classes. It's okay. Don't cower because you are different, embrace it and move forward. Sit in the front, take in knowledge and be smart.

2. It's okay to ask Questions

You aren't supposed to know everything. That's why you're still in school! Don't be afraid to ask questions to understand better. If the teacher says we have to move on, stay after class, or stay after school for tutoring.

3. Work hard, play hard

When you put in the work, you can have so much more fun. Get your homework done asap, then you can go hangout with your friends and not have to worry about all that needs to be done and the repercussions that follow from slacking.

4. Find friends that support you and who you're going to be

High School is about finding yourself and being confident in who you are. Find friends that support you, love you and life you up. Don't hang around with those who try to change you and your way of thinking. Take control of your life and be you...when you're you, you are happy.

5. Learn more about Jesus Christ

His love is never ending, beautiful, overwhelming, astounding, and life changing. Don't reject it. Accept it and grow in love and faith. Your life will change and you will be so in love with your life when you realize that Jesus Christ loves you into eternal life. My gosh your life will change. Open your heart and listen to those around you, especially adults.

Take these things and apply them. Life will be so much easier when you allow yourself to be the best version of you.

From,
Your newly, graduated, Senior Self :)  

 xx you can check out Alyssa's blog at http://alyssamiles.blogspot.com xx

___ Wow Alyssa that was amazing but tbh thank you for being you, for always getting me through the day with an encouraging text (or snapchat) and always being the one to tell me when I'm overreacting to something stupid. I hope you don't mind the Facebook stalking I did to get these pictures to add. Honey you're beautiful and I can't wait to see where this friendship takes us
lots of love,
Jess ___